Just like with normal off-line friendships, online relationships have to be tended and to be allowed to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips:
1. Take Time and Make Time: Does your online partner email you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered rude, so treat each other’s time respectfully. If that respect is lacking, it could mean that it is time to move on.
2. Communication Needs to “Feel” Right For Both of You: If one of you is being too pushy about having a meeting, for instance, that can create ill feelings. So, please, don’t rush; take your time to learn more about each other and develop trust.
3. Respect Each Other’s Privacy: Don’t share the other person’s email addresses or digital photos with your friends online, for example; especially if your online date sent you the information in confidence.
4. Share Special Online and Offline Enjoyable Times: Online: send online greeting cards; links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet; download music and video clips; post on favourite forums of interest. Offline: if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send printed greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state motto).
5. Share Recipes: People get tired of just talking about the weather, so a very popular subject to take refuge in is food. Sharing information about favourite foods and recipes will get things going and help form a point of reference; talk about your favourite cuisine and tastes. Do a search online for free recipes to share and take photos of your culinary masterpieces and share them with your online friend as well.
6. Bidding at Auctions: Ebay auctions sell anything and everything! Therefore, look about and enter searches like the dates you were in middle school. Share cool photos of old games and toys from when you were a child or when your parents or grandparents were small.
Online dating can be an educational and fun experience. So learn more about each other and have fun while youre doing it. Take a cyber-stroll down ol’ memory lane together and see what’s cookin’. Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it may sprout and grow.
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